its just something that i'd like to share with everyone out there. i chanced upon this girl's blog and she happened to be of my age and she sleeps around, being other men's mistresses.
what surprised me was how she thought sex could keep a man by her side and how sex could make them love her. she has had affairs with her bosses, colleagues, married men and even random strangers that she knew from facebook. she literally sleeps around with ANYONE who wanna sleeps with her. she thought these people are gonna love her back and leave their wives for her but none of them would do so for her. worst of all, she dont even get anything from them for sleeping with them. no money, no status and no love. is this called innocent or just trying to act dumb? or maybe she's just too desperate for love? whatever the reasons are, she shouldnt be seducing her bosses and married men or attached men. she knows its wrong but she continued doing so.
inititally, i kinda pitied the girl cus she cant seems to find anyone who's serious about her but after reading more and more of her posts, she revealed that she's the willing party who wanna sleep around with them even though she knows that its wrong. wth is wrong with her mindset? its cus of girls like her exist thats why men can cheat.
if she truly feels guilty of doing all these things, she should stop liking every men that she gets near to. that is not love, that is cheapening herself. she even revealed that sometimes she's the one who initiated all the sex with those men. i just dont understand. this is definitely not the way to keep a man. you're not only hurting yourself but you're hurting the rest of the women out there as well...
this whole thing reminded me of what someone told me before, that a man will never leave his wife for his flings outside cus he knows what he wants and who are the ones for keeps.
